Why Miss All-That can't Find Mr. Right

When a woman feels she is "Miss Average”, she actually has a few advantages. #1 The hot, cocky guy isn't approaching. This is actually to her advantage, since, if we have learned anything, nine times out of ten, the hot guy is the one that is full of himself enough to be happy to put you fifteenth on his list. #2 "Miss Average", as somewhat of a result of #1, is looking at more than just the physical characteristics. She may not be approached by the hot guy or may not have the guts to approach someone "out of her league". She must turn to Mr. Average and try to find more beneath his surface.Both Mr. and Miss Average have had to get by on MORE than looks their whole life. This means, percentage wise, there must be a higher ratio of Average Joe's with GREAT personalities than in the "hot guy" category. Now Miss Average is generally more accepting when Mr. Average approaches. She knows "hot guy" isn't coming over (and apparently lucky that he isn't). Miss Average happily accepts a date when asked, because it doesn't happen to her everyday. When she accepts the date, it is probably with Mr. Average. The guy that hasn't been able to get by on just looks and has a great personality. Miss Average finds that Mr. Average treats her amazingly well and is her true partner and friend and they end up happily ever after. Mr. Average becomes the husband that all the other ladies are jealous of and wonder, "How did she land a great guy like that?"Mean while, Miss All That is still looking for Mr. Hot. Already discussed above, the ratio or jerk is much higher in this category, leaving her either with the wrong men or having to put down the phone after a few dates, getting duped by their first impression charm. Mr. Average doesn't have the guts to approach in most situations. He has a larger fear of getting shot down than Mr. Hot. Mr. Average is more likely to treat Miss All That right, but she has such a hang up on Mr. Hot across the room, she even rejects dates with Mr. Average. Miss All That is jealous of Miss Average. Miss Average is getting the "perfect" guy while she’s still spending her life so hung up on first impression charm; she seems to have an impossible time getting past it. Miss All That has always been able to get Mr. Hot. She kept thinking it was her ticket to eternal bliss. All men have flaws and she choose the flawed personality over the flawed body. She even believed she could make Mr. Hot have the personality of Mr. Average. This has yet to work. Did I mention Miss Average is already happily married? Dating lesson of the day...Miss All That has a lot to learn from Miss Average. At the end of the day, what Miss All That wouldn't do for someone to look at her and think "Wow I can't believe she chose ME!" Mr. Average would say that. Mr. Hot is never going to. Miss All That never realized how hung up on looks she was. She never thought of herself as vein, but when it came to dating, vanity won and she was missing the boat to the happiness she wanted.

I’m sure a lot of you see a little of yourself in this. For some reason the guy you perceive to be “out of your league” is hard to say “no” to. May this be your hang up or something else, this week, take a look in the mirror and be honest about what’s getting in the way of you choosing the right men. Saying “the wrong men seem to find me” is a cop out. After all you are the one giving him your number… Remember to let those men Hear your Heels so you can go find your Mr. Right. He may even be Mr. Hot, the difference is, that won’t be the reason you give him your number. We are all going to be old and wrinkly some day, even Mr. Hot. Remember how much more personality matters.

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