Stop saying no to the nice guy that you can tell is super nervous approaching you. Stop dating only the guy with the great first impression. Mr. Smooth, Mr. Hottie, and Mr. Cool often give the best first impressions, but how many times have you dated one of those guys only to find out he wasn’t the best boyfriend? Mr. Average, Mr. Nervous, Mr. Shy-At-First may really like you and treat you very well!!!
Stop judging Mr. Into-You on how physically attracted you are to him. Ever thought someone was more or less attractive after spending time with them and seeing them for their great or terrible personality? Take a risk- take the date. Try on Mr. Nice, Mr. Shy, Mr. Not-My-Type, or Mr. Nervous…and then try not to judge him too much on the first date. Yes you’ve made a list and if he hits things on your “Run For It” list or doesn’t hit your “Necessity” list don’t waste his or your time. However, if the first date just didn’t “click” and was kind of awkward give it another shot. If it doesn’t work out at least it is a step in the right direction towards giving quality men your time and starting to weed out the guys that are never going to treat you the way you dream of being treated.
The vast majority of us all want the same thing, to find Mr. Right, keep Mr. Right, and stop dating all the Mr. Right-Nows. I hope, at the very least, by writing down who he is and isn’t in a “Necessity” and “Run For it” list you can keep your eyes more firmly planted on your goal. For me, this is why I created the “Hear my Heels” bracelet. It serves as a great daily reminder to walk away, with your head held high, from all the Mr. Right-Nows. Keeping a reminder, keeping goals, and reminding yourself again and again of what you deserve will help you stop wasting time on Mr. Right Now. If you are with him you are missing your chance at meeting Mr. Right. Let that thought be your smile as you walk away.
Every one of you deserves to find him. It’s your life, these are your choices, go make what you want a reality and don’t give up until it is. You are going to hit bumps, you are going to meet toads and sometimes you are going to get your heart broken. All of these things teach you lessons you need and help you grow stronger if you let them. Keep your reminders up of the life you want. Keep reaching for it and never, never, never, never give up. He IS out there…you may not even believe that until you find him…but he is.
Never forget everything you deserve in life. Click here to purchase Hear my Heels bracelets to remember to keep going towards something better. Please forward this information to all the women you care about.
Hear my Heels ~ The sound of you walking away, smiling, towards something better.
20% of profits are donated to domestic abuse charities.
Copyright 2009 Molly Pennington All rights reserved
About Me
- Finding Life's Passion
- Morrisville, NC, United States
- I am the owner of Hear my Heels, a company whose products promote and support a healthy attitude and women's empowerment. 20% of all profits are donated to domestic abuse charities.